9.29.2022

September Stuff

 

We got Heidi home for a couple of days right at the first of September and had a lovely time with her. Lila especially bonded with her this trip (which may have been helped along by the fact that Heidi brought lots of make up for her to play with). Everywhere Heidi went, Lila was close behind! We did sneak away one day to get pedicures and lunch.

We did a fun Labor Day swim and BBQ night. These cousins all bonded so much at the pool this summer- it was one of the best parts of the whole summer for all of us!
Our peach largely froze this year, but we did get a good handful. I made a few batches of jam, some delicious peach crisp and then we ate a lot of them fresh. Whenever I’m in the kitchen, my little assistant is right there alongside! 

Double-decker cozy-couping became the favorite game for these two. Almost every day when Davis gets home from kindergarten they do this (notice the different outfits, all on different days). Lila usually hates to share her car, but this is an acceptable option to both of them!


After his initial rocky start, Hudson settled into a great groove with school. He took this selfie and thought it was hilarious. His homework isn’t much, but it is mostly stuff for me to do with him (study spelling and vocabulary, timing reading fluency and quizzing math facts). I’m loving it. He’s happy to do it with me. All the other kids tend to demand more attention than Hudson does, and sometimes I feel like he falls through the cracks a little. I like having this homework time together to spend time with this sweet boy! He’s also finally really gotten into reading! He has to read for 30 minutes every night but usually ends up reading more than an hour. It’s paying off too- his reading scores are awesome. He also qualified to do DEEP (the school enrichment program for smart kids) again this year.

It’s hard to tell, but this photo is Chase being the sweetest big brother. He’s letting Lila paint his nails. She likes to pretend to paint the boys nails with her lip gloss (then it easily just washes off). She even goes and gets her hair dryer to dry them like I do with her. Chase was so darling letting her do it with him!

Initially Davis hated having to write his name, but pretty quickly it started to get easier and then he didn’t mind so much. He actually feels so big to be doing his homework alongside his big brothers!
The big kids have blown me away with what good students they are! They are responsible about school work and seem very devoted to their studies! I hope they always stay this way.
Davis’s little soccer team is the cutest! He kicks the ball a lot, not always even the right direction and I’m not sure he even cares. He’s having fun which is what really matters anyway!
I love the creative play Hudson, Davis and their buddy Will are always doing! This day was Harry Potter play and it lasted for well over an hour! Sometimes Will feels like basically a member of the family he’s over so much. He even told me “You guys are kind of like my cousins, like best friend cousins!”

 Hudson got his green belt at karate!
Chase had so many opportunities to do fun outings with friends this summer. Some of them were friends treating him to fun things like Cherry Hill and Boondocks and some of it was him using his lawn mowing money to go out to lunch with friends (riding their bikes). Hudson was feeling a little jealous of all the cool things Chase got to do. And while we explained part of it came with Chase’s age and level of independence, we also wanted Hudson to get to have a little more fun. So I told him he could invite a friend and I’d take them out for a night of fun! He invited Hyrum (who is the sweetest boy ever) and I took them to Boondocks to do go karts and arcade games and then to Chick-Fil-A for dinner. It was such a fun night and I loved being out with these darling boys!
Poor Lila got hit with another bug and spent two days throwing up! It was awful. Except that she was so snuggly and snuggling with my baby is always a treat.
The boys all unintentionally matched this particular day. What I love most about this photo is just how delighted Davis is to be between “his boys”. He loves these guys so much and they are so sweet to him. I love watching their relationship grow. 
Gosh, sending my big 6th grader out the door is wild. He’s almost as tall as me. He’s so independent about getting all ready and all his jobs done in the morning. He’s just awesome. September brought us new piano teachers for both boys! Our beloved teacher Jodi moved this summer, so we haven’t had a teacher since May. The boys have been awesome to keep practice and learning all summer, but it was definitely time for some direction and a teacher! I thought I had one teacher arranged, and then her schedule changed and she was no longer going to teach. So I found another one- Connie Johnson- and started both boys with her at the first of the school year. After two lessons she called me to tell me she didn’t think she could teach Chase. He’s just too advanced and she was worried she’d hold him back. So I began looking for another teacher for him, and I think we’ve found the right one! He started with Brenda Peters at the end of the month. I’m hoping she’ll keep him moving along and enjoying the piano! Hudson really likes Connie Johnson, and she is closer and much cheaper, so we are keeping him with her for now. So piano isn’t as smooth and easy as it was when both kids were with Jodi, but I think we are ending up in a great spot for both boys. 
Davis cracks me up because he was so excited about this gray jacket. He bought it on his back to school shopping date with Nana and she was surprised because he was so excited about it then! It’s just a plain gray jacket. Then some cool rainy days came and he got to wear it to school and he was so excited about it again. It’s the simple things I guess! 
Queen Elizabeth passed away in September which made me so nostalgic for London. I really wish I could visit London every year, I love that place so much! So I did the next best thing- invited some friends over and we had High Tea! It was lovely! I pulled out my fine china, used the tea cups for the first time, and made British scones. I bought eclairs, and my friends brought cucumber sandwiches and tea and we had a really lovely little tea party complete with deep discussions about life and friendship and the eternities.
September was so hot- like the hottest on record in Utah ever! But towards the end of the month we got some nice rainstorms and it started to cool down. We love spending our evenings outside together when it’s just so comfortably pleasant!

Hudson, just sweetly doing his homework. I love the way he talks my ear off while he works on his stuff. 
Chase started doing an extra 15 minutes of practicing after school (in addition to his morning 30) and it was a really good thing for him. He doesn’t usually have homework, but needed a way to transition from school to going straight out to play with friends. This is a good compromise. Plus- I’m often working out during his morning practice sessions and thus don’t get to hear his songs. This way I get to hear them!
The littles and I took birthday presents to Will and Anna one night and stayed WAY longer than planned because the kids were having so much fun. Like so much fun we didn’t even see them! I love seeing these cute cousins connect. 

Sometimes (like  all the time) Davis is so cute I think I might eat him…







9.14.2022

Thankful for Family

We have hit this spot that is really just a sweet spot for our family. Last week we packed up the kids after dinner and took them up to swim at Nana’s. We were having so much fun in the pool with our kids and enjoying all their cuteness and fun personalities. Chase asked me, “Mom what was the happiest time of your life?” Without much thought I replied “Now.” Ben quickly agreed. And really I meant it. We’ve had lots of happy times in life- really more happy times than not. But now is especially sweet in so many ways and I want to remember how good life is. Not perfect, but very, very sweet and just so good.











 

Out of the Mouth of Lila

 Sitting on my bed, watching Daniel Tiger, first thing in the morning:

Mommy! You make yours bed! You make yours bed mommy!

Me: Okay, I will.

Lila: Oh, thanks mom. 



She was super mad one night at dinner and was devastated that Davis said the prayer on the food. After finally calming down a little I asked her to say the prayer. She declined. I asked who she wanted to say it. She looked around the table and then said with so much certainty “Huds.” Huds was not present. 


She will frequently slam a door upstairs and then yell down the stairs to us: Be ky-et guys! My baby is sleeping!



I need to do my lips! (Repeated 20 times a day. Girl loves lipstick)


Comes to me, with a face covered in smashed lipstick and declared “the carpet is very messy mommy! You need to clean it!” Hmmmm…I wonder who made that mess! Spoiler alert- dawn dish soap and lots of scrubbing took it out.



Me: Lila, do you want to go swimming with Rosie?

Lila: Will Heidi be there?


I commented on her cute panda jammies one night and she said “daddy put them on. Daddy did it daddy-self”



She gets so mad at me in the mornings when I’m not ready for the day yet. I frequently get reprimanded to “go get dressed!” “You shower mommy!”. One morning she was screaming in her crib (unusual for her, she usually just climbs out when she wakes up). I quit mid-workout to go see what was up and when I came into her room she immediately yelled at me “No mommy! You get dressed! You get dressed NOW MOMMY!” 



Out of the Mouth of Davis

 I sent him to his room because he was being so naughty. When I was talking to him about his behavior and he seemed to think nothing was wrong with it:

Me: Davis! You hurt Hudson! And then you were teasing Lila and made her cry!

Davis: (looking at me with the most innocent smile and his darling big eyes) But I didn’t do anything to Chase!



I asked him about who he wanted to marry after his cousin Anna was lamenting that she couldn’t marry her cousin (meaning Davis).

Davis: Um, yeah, probably her. Because sometimes we play family. Because we are still little kids. Or are we big kids? No, I think we are still just kids. Mom, what am I going to do when I’m 69?

Me: When you are 69 you can do anything you want!

Davis: Can I play with rescue bots and decepticons?

Me: Yep.


During camping he kept sneaking over to Will’s tent and when Will tried to send him back he kept saying “I just need to tell Huds and Nora some stuff about Star Wars.” It was 10:30 pm.



One morning he was taking out the trash and said to me:

“Mom, why are Lila’s diapers so stinky?”

Me: Well, poop is stinky

Davis: Yeah so we don’t eat it for dinner.

Me: What do you like for dinner? (Knowing full well the answer to that)

Davis: Pizza…and rolls…..and um…Pizza.


He earned his 100 points and finally get to go on his special date with his dad- of his choosing. We should have specified this was limited to real, existing activities only.

“For my dad date we are going to McDonalds and then to the trampoline park and then to Netflixland where we are going to ride the rescuebot rides!” 

Ben tried to explain that Netflixland isn’t a real thing therefore he doesn’t know how to get there. Davis responded “That’s okay dad, the guy flying the jet will know how to get there”

When Ben clarified that they wouldn’t be flying on a plane anywhere for the date Davis responded with “it’s not a plane dad, it’s a jet.” Matter settled.

After his first soccer game I gave him a high five and told him he did great. His response was a matter of fact “I know, I did do so good!”


Randomly shared one night: We wear our feet in our house but we don’t wear our shoes in the house.


I very very love sitting on dad’s car mom.



A few phrases from Kindergarten have magically been working their way into his vocabulary. I heard him singing to himself “ 54321 shhhhh” and then he got really excited to exclaim “Criss Cross Applesauce!” When he was sitting on the floor playing with cousins.


He picked up his pencil firmly in his fist, “this isn’t right, right mom?” Then he corrected the grip and when I confirmed in was right be broke into the cutest smile, fist pumped the air and said “Mrs. Joseph and Mrs. Spinello are going to be so happy with me!”


During his nightly prayers he’s been doing what Ben has titled “co-praying”. He says one line, then has Ben say a line, then he says one, and on and on. Sometimes Bei Bei also contributes to the group prayer as well. Last night Davis didn’t want to pray, he wanted Ben to help his little R2D2 pray. So Ben would say something and Davis, speaking for R2D2 in a high squeaky voice would repeat the line. At the end of the prayer Ben said amen, R2D2 said amen and then Davis said amen.