2.06.2018

All the January Stuff


When we weren't celebrating our little boys' birthdays this month (which does tend to occupy a LOT of January for us) we did do a few other fun things! We gave Chase the first Harry Potter book for his birthday (the illustrated version, it's beautiful!) and Chase and I had so much fun reading it together! I seriously looked forward to this milestone for years and it was so fun to share that book with him. He loved it and would bring it to me to read any spare minute we had. It only took us 10 days to finish! Once we were done we watched the movie together (in about four different sittings, we never found a big enough chunk of time to watch the whole thing).  Now he's working on earning the 2nd book!


Davis is officially in the "getting into everything" stage. He loves to empty cupboards and bins and just generally make a mess. On this particular night he'd been really fussy, but going through our bathroom cupboards was making him happy, so I just sat back and took [poorly lit] pictures and laughed at him.


 Ray and Diane got the boys a zoo pass for Christmas, so we used it for the first time! Hudson is such a zoo lover (and I think Davis will be too!) so I'm really excited to get to go a bunch this year. Our friends the Josephs and Rohbocks also have passes, so all of us met up there on a random Tuesday morning (that the kids had off school) and had a lovely time exploring the zoo together! I always feel pressure with these type of outings- try to get good pictures? Or just enjoy being with the kids? It seems hard to do both. So I mostly enjoyed the outing and company and as a result ended up with only a few sub-par pictures. It was a fun morning though!



 This January was so weirdly warm! One 55 degree day I packed up my kids, grabbed a couple of the Bacciocco kids so they'd have playmates, and headed to the park! It was seriously glorious. I have no pictures of Chase and Luca, because they were running like crazy the whole time (they brought a frisbee). Nora (with the two babies) and Hudson have gotten to be cute little friends and had so much fun together, and I mostly pushed Davis on the swings. Another dad at the park asked me a little skeptically "How many kids do you have?!" I assured him only three, I brought a few extras, although ironically only one of the redheads was actually mine. (The Bacciocco kids have bright red hair just like Davis)

 Davis is a glasses grabber. Also, his tongue is out like this all the time. I have about 13 pictures of this cute interaction with my dad, but this is what they always do together. Davis grabs his glasses and my dad "tries" to stop him.
 We switched to 9:00 church and it's glorious! Also, I just love getting my kids all dressed up for church! I think they look so cute in their nice clothes, and I especially loved Davis in this little number Heidi got him. And now we all get Sunday naps after church!

 This picture is just general Davis cuteness, every month goes by so fast and I can't believe how quickly we are approaching his first birthday! We spent a lot of this month just playing at home. It's made me realize a few things, one of which is how thankful I am for our home. I really love being here. While I generally like to get out and about and do stuff, it's nice to feel comfortable and happy to stay home as well. Also I've seen my kids bond more and more, which is the happiest to watch. My older boys disappear down to the basement to play for hours at a time (thanks mostly to new Christmas and birthday toys!). I used to dread January and felt like it dragged on and on forever, this year it flew by!


1.14.2018

Out of the Mouth of Hudson

Hudson: Mom, who was the first ever American?
Me: Um...I'm not sure???
Hudson: You know, he stuck a feather in his hat and called it macaroni?
Me: Oh, Yankee Doodle?
Hudson: Yeah!

Chase: I'm hungry!
Hudson: Hi hungry! I'm Hudson!

In the car Davis was crying: "Davis is TICKED! And I am tocked. Tick tock tick tock."

Getting out of the car, Jazmyn always says "bye bye Hudsy!" to which he yelled one day, "I prefer Hudson!"
 I picked him up from a day with Papa, during which he fell asleep on the car ride home and thus missed the promised treat of chocolate milk. When I picked him up he was still tired and a little prickly and yelled down the hall (where papa was): Papa promised to buy me a chocolate milk on the way home which HE DID NOOOOOT do!

He told Nana "Our old bishop got fired. Either that or he died." (the truth is that he got released and moved shortly thereafter)

One night at dinner I reminded Hudson over and over to eat his dinner. He kept basically not eating it. I finally scolded him for it and he looked at me with a totally straight face/bored expression and said "I'm just waiting for you to feed me."

"Fritters!" - his expletive of choice one day. Once Hudson figures out what swear words are, I'm sure he'll be using them. For now he just makes up his own. Personal favorites are "blasty" and "bum-it"

He was calling tiny things "choking blizzards" (instead of hazards)

"Mom, do all churches have Jesus?"
Me: No, a lot of churches believe in Jesus, but some other religions don't and believe in other things.
Huds: Like they believe that the Titanic still floats? And that Apollo 11 wasn't real?
(I'm fairly certain that no one has introduced the moon landing conspiracy to Hudson, but he actually brings it up quite often that some people don't believe in Apollo 11- included on this list is his 3 year old cousin Nora and Unky Nate. I have confirmed that neither one is a moon landing conspiracy theorist, but Hudson is sure otherwise.)


Hudson was explaining, in detail, his nursery class. "In general, I like to play with boys. But not in general, like in nursery, I like to play with girls. (And then explained why- the boys in his nursery class are fairly challenging/mean) Travin, he sits by the trash and he pulls trash out of the trash can! And Daniel---He's our mean one! He calls us chickens! And hits and kicks us! So I like to play with Leah and Nora. My friend Nora, the one with the two babies (as opposed to his cousin Nora "with just one baby") She likes to think before she does things!"
Nana: Hudson, do you like to think before you do things?
Hudson: Um....I don't, but I think I'm going to start.

To Davis one morning: Hey there chicken box!
Me: Why did you call him chicken box?
Hudson: Because he's just so cute!
(that explains everything)

Chase: An odd plus an odd is an even. And an even plus an even is an even. But an even plus an odd is an odd.
Hudson: So what is an odd plus a coco puff? And how about a coco puff plus an odd plus a coco puff? (Said with a twinkle in his eye that he knew he was being silly).













Chase turns 7

Chase turned seven! Seven felt so old to me, but really Chase is mature beyond his years in many ways and in those ways, seven seems young! It's always a challenge for us to figure out how to best celebrate his birthday, with it coming right after Christmas (and so many toys and clothes and new things) and being in the deep of winter (making outdoor activities impossible), but I think this year we found just the right way to celebrate our amazing kid (and not drive mom crazy at the same time!).

I told him no friend party this year, but that we'd make his day special in a different way. He got his favorite breakfast "opimeal waffles" and we opened presents from just us. We gave him Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone (illustrated version) and we've been reading it together. He's hooked! Such a fun present for both of us! In morning carpool both Jaz and Luca had brought simple little presents for him!

I checked him out of school at lunch and we went to Old Grist Mill just the two of us. It was a highlight of the day for me! He'll still hold my hand, he was so excited about everything (ordering a sandwich just the way you want! Mint brownies! Pink lemonade!) and it was so fun to have time with just him!



After school (and a playdate with his buddies) we had his favorite dinner (tacos) and then went to Sky trampoline park. The boys had a great time jumping and going crazy. Chase was super proud that he climbed to the top of the rock wall and got to ring the bell (it took him three tries to do it, but he kept trying). We went to Cold Stone for ice cream afterwards and on the way home Chase declared it the "best birthday ever!"

On the Sunday following his birthday we did cake and ice cream and a mini family party at my parents house. He ordered a funfetti cake, which I happily obliged.



We love this kid so much! Chase has been such a pleasure in our family since day one. He was the cutest, friendliest baby and he's turned into the cutest, friendliest seven year old! He's such a good big brother to Hudson and Davis. He works so hard in school even though most of it comes easily to him; he keeps pushing himself to do better and learn more.  Here's a few more things about seven year old Chase:

  • He loves absolutely everything about school, but especially loves art, PE, computers and music. And he loves having all his little friends in his class.
  • He loves riding his bike and even though it's winter, still rides to friends houses all the time.
  • He loves to read and is obsessed with Box Car Children books. He's probably read 30 of them already and keeps checking them out of the library every time we go.
  • Loves to eat veggies these days and get genuinely excited when I pack bell peppers or cucumbers in his lunch. He also goes nuts for steamed broccoli. I don't get it, but I'll take it!
  • He is the most social child and he loves to play with friends every chance he gets. His closest little buddies in our neighborhood are Luca, Jazmyn, Quinn, Ella and Adam (all but Adam are also in his class at school! He got so lucky this year!).
  • He loves to help around the house, especially with cooking or helping Ben on any home repair project. He vacuums and dusts now. He loves to help crack eggs and open cans and anything else I'll let him do in the kitchen. He takes the garbages out for me every day and is doing so well with making his bed and keeping his room clean.
  • He loves church and learning there. He really wants to be a good kid and tries so hard to do the right thing.

1.01.2018

New Year

Wow, 2017 was a crazy year for our family. Ben and I like to do a date night and go to the temple right before New Years. We reflect on that last year and make goals and dreams for the upcoming year, and decide on a new theme scripture for our family. The scripture we chose for this year is 3 Nephi 27:27 "Therefore, what manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am." We are excited to talk a lot about this scripture this year and as a family become more Christlike.

As Ben and I reflected on 2017, we decided it was a roller coaster. Some of the highest highs, and some kind of hard lows as well. It was an exhausting year for sure (new baby, lots of work travel, three kids, along with normal everyday life) but one that was full of so much joy and adventure. Hands down, Davis's birth was the highlight of our year. He is the sweetest little baby and has made our family so happy this last year. Seeing our boys completely embrace him and their new roles as big brothers to him has been nothing short of magical for us. We are all just smitten! I hoped the transition to having three kids would go smoothly, but it has far surpassed anything I could have hoped for. Not that it hasn't been hard at times, and exhausting (ahem, Davis STILL doesn't sleep through the night consistently), but the bond and love we all have for this baby has been the best part of the year. I have no doubt that Davis was exactly who we needed in our family, he's been a perfect fit and we all just adore him!

Besides the whole experience of adding Davis, another highlight of the year has been the few trips we've had together. Ben, Davis and I got to see Boston. We took the kids to Virginia and DC, Torrey and camping. We also have had a lot of fun game nights as a family, fun reading together, swimming and hiking and just being together. We've grown closer to our ward and neighborhood and love where we live so much. We have so much to be thankful for this year.

2017 also was the crazy year with Ben's job(s). 4 jobs this year! We started the year knowing he'd need to leave Polycom by the end of January and felt so blessed with Pragmatic fell into his lap. That lead to six busy, but fun months of lots of travel and working for an exciting new company before it's abrupt end in July. That was the hardest thing we dealt with this year. He had his quick stint at Paychex (which wasn't a great fit) before joining Redlist in October. Through all these crazy changes, we feel blessed and content with where he ended the year. He really likes his job at Redlist and we think it has a lot of potential for the future. Through all these changes, we only went one week without a paycheck, which is an amazing blessing. It was rocky and crazy, but we both feel stronger for having gone through it (and hope to never have to repeat something like that in the future!).

So good-bye to 2017! We loved you, you were a great year for our family, and we are excited to see what 2018 has in store for us!

12.27.2017

All the December FUN!

December is our month of parties! With having three kids now, and my goal to be fully present and enjoy the people I am with, I didn't take many pictures (or any!) at most of these parties!

We had a fun ward party and parties with both the Smith and White extended families. We had our traditional party with our BYU friends down at Virgin's new home and it was just lovely. Wonderful food and even better company. The only picture I have is of the three babies. Sophie is 6 months older than Brooks and Davis, who are two weeks apart. Davis is a good 10 pounds smaller than Brooks!

We did our traditional service activities each day during December. We made lots of Christmas treats to deliver to various people. The boys took them to the police and fire station, to a few different widows and widowers, the mailman, primary and school teachers, and neighbors. We made dinner for a family with a new baby and fed the missionaries. We opened doors for people, gave lots of hugs and back rubs, made each other's beds, sent Christmas cards to missionaries, focused on kind words and donated food to the food bank. I love doing this. Some days it goes better than others, but I feel like it puts such a good focus on service and love during the month. It helps us be a little less selfish and I love seeing the boy's enthusiasm for serving others, and learning that it can be fun!




Davis turned 9 months old! He's 17 pounds 2 oz (10th percentile) and 26 inches (not even on the chart) and super healthy and just perfect and darling! He loved ripping the paper in the doctors office while we waited. He's been hit or miss on sleep, spent most of December cutting his two bottom teeth (that finally came through on Christmas Eve) and has been making our spirits bright every day since he was born! We reminisced a lot all month long about what a wonderful, perfect addition Davis is to our family and how thankful we are to have him with us this Christmas.



 We spent a lovely evening at Christmas Village with the Smith family! We all love that place. The boys love seeing every little house and it snowed that night, which made it extra magical.






Both boys had darling Christmas programs at school this month! I've loved hearing all their cute songs all month long. At Chase's program, he got chosen to lead his class in their cute poem about Christmas surprises. Davis watched both programs like a perfect little brother- entranced and entertained the whole time. Ben and I gushed in the audience both times at how cute and darling our boys are!




























We had cookie wars with the Smith family. It was so fun! We had teams and each team picked a theme. We had Santa's workshop (Heidi, Will, Nora and Nana), Christmas Lights (Chase, Ben, Papa and Halie) and 12 days of Christmas (Me, Katie, Hudson and Nate). It was a blast, and Santa's workshop clearly won, although I think we were all impressed with the creativity all around. Any team that has Heidi clearly has a solid advantage :)
 

 
One of my parent's Christmas surprises for the kids was a ride on the Polar Express (Heber Creeper)! They were so excited and had so much fun. Chase said his favorite part was learning about the history of the train and Hudson's was the long conversation he had with an elf. Sounds about right! It was a magical afternoon for them!





Then it was finally Christmas! Christmas Eve fell on Sunday, which was just lovely. We have 1:00 church, so we spent a relaxing morning at home watching Christmas movies together. We loved attending church and listening to the beautiful music and messages about Christ.
 Then it was time for our traditional Smith family party! We played minute-to-win-it (so hilarious!) and charades (equally funny) and had a beautiful candlelight dinner. My boys talk about this dinner all year and think that eating my candlelight is the best. I have to agree. I look forward to it all year. We did the nativity with puppets and then did our gift exchange. The boys were completely spoiled by their cousins, grandparents and aunt Heidi. I seriously wondered why we even bothered to buy them Christmas presents! Heidi got them watches and they were a huge hit. Chase has been telling us what time it is every five minutes and has thanked Heidi profusely for them. They also got some darling books, cute outfits and some fun games!

We packed up to head home and it was snowing! We haven't had much snow, so seeing beautiful snowfall on Christmas Eve was just magical! To make things even better, we got home and started getting the boys towards bed. Chase stopped to write Santa a note. I was trying to rush him to bed, but once I saw the note, my heart melted. Hudson is always kind of a mischievous and temper-prone child (along with a LOT of sweetness and darling, good characteristics too). Hudson had been threatened repeatedly that he could be on the naughty list. Chase's note read "Dear Santa. I know Hudson has been hitting, kicking and punching. But mostly he's been good. love, Chase A. Hugo" and then he drew a picture of our house. How sweet is that! He was looking out for his little brother!


Luckily we had all the kids in bed, fast asleep by like 9:30 and Ben and I were in bed by 10:30! It was a peaceful, beautiful Christmas Eve! Everyone slept through the night (a rarity in our house in 2017, thanks mostly to Davis), but they were up early (again, thank you Davis). We had a lovely morning opening presents and the boys were delighted with every single thing they opened! I made them new aprons, which they loved, and shutterfly books of their toddler years (since they love their baby books so much), which were a hit. Of course, they were delighted that Santa delivered what they'd hoped for and then we spent all day long playing our new games, assembling legos (Chase's little heart could have burst with happiness) and relaxing.



We finished the day up at my parents house with a delicious turkey dinner and a rousing round of trivial pursuit (in which the girls team won!). It was really a perfect, lovely Christmas!


12.26.2017

Kick-Off to Christmas!

It's the most wonderful time of the year! We love this season. Something about having a baby in the house again at Christmas has made it even more magical this year. Right after Thanksgiving we started our Christmas celebrations. We got the house decorated and having been playing Christmas music all day. On Black Friday we did our traditional "Kick-off to Christmas" party to start out the season, a much anticipated Hugo Family tradition. We decorated the tree, which I love doing so much. The boys love doing it, love reminiscing with each ornament they put on. They love putting up all my old ornaments as well, asking me when and where I got every single one of them. So many memories! While we were decorating the tree, I heard Chase say to no one in particular, "This just makes me SO HAPPY!" 

While we were decorating, Ben was holding Davis while they watched us. When Davis got a little restless, I handed him a shiny, red, ball ornament. His little eyes got so wide and his mouth broke into the biggest, cutest, toothless grin. He loved holding that little ball (and dropping it, and watching it hit the floor again and again). He stayed totally entranced by it!

After decorating the tree the boys got to open their Christmas jammies! They look so cute all matching. Davis was actually super thrilled when I sat him down with the boys to take this picture, he loves being included in things! Then we cuddled up, ate leftover Thanksgiving pie, and watched the Muppet Christmas Carol, a favorite Christmas movie of ours. The boys loved it and Hudson reenacted his favorite scenes over and over again. 

The next night we headed to temple square to see the lights. Oh my gosh, they are so beautiful! I love this every year. It was a nice warm night, which was great to not need to bundle everyone up so much. It also meant that it was super crowded- about 1 million other people had our same idea. Nonetheless, it was beautiful and awesome. 

 We took the boys to see Santa at Station Park, like we always do. I love this Santa. He is so patient and kind with the boys, takes time to talk with them, and makes the experience just magical. Hudson walked right in and asked Santa, "Do you sometimes say "ho! ho! ho!"? When Santa replied that he did, Hudson smiled and gave him a big thumbs up. Like saying, YES, he IS the REAL Santa!

Chase asked for "coast guard" legos. Santa said he'd bring them only if Chase promises to clean them up when he's done playing. He went on to explain how it hurts to step on legos, and how the elves in the lego department wear special shoes for that reason!
 Hudson asked for an Air Patroller, which is the plane from Paw Patrol. He's wanted it for like 11 months.
 Davis was obviously a little skeptical and possibly confused by the experience, but he did sit there while I snapped a picture.

It was a great start to December!